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“I’m having an affair and I don’t know what to do…”

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Yesterday a reader sent me an email with the following question: ”I’m having an affair and I love my girlfriend, but I don’t want to abandon my family. What should I do?”

OK, time to step back from my emotions and try to answer this question from an objective perspective.

If you’re having an affair, you really have three choices. None of these choices is good. Unfortunately, you’ve already made a monumental bad choice, and there will be consequences for that choice. However, I’ll try to detail the three different paths below. Read the rest of this entry

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My Husband Seems Distant. What Does This Mean?

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For years, everything has seemed OK in your marriage. Sure, you’ve had a few issues, but nothing out of the ordinary. Your marriage is pretty normal.

Suddenly your husband seems distant

However, you sense a sudden change. You think, “my husband seems distant.” Without any real reason you can see, your husband seems emotionally distant. When you’re together, it’s almost as if he’s not “into” the moment. He seems closed-off and won’t talk about anything important. Read the rest of this entry

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How to Make My Husband Happy? Love is a Verb!

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If you’re asking yourself “how to make my husband happy,” you are closer to an answer to improving your marriage than you might think.

Often we tend to shift a great deal of the blame for marriage issues to our spouse instead of taking responsibility. That’s not fair nor is it realistic. It’s best to focus on what you can do to make your marriage better. One of the most effective steps to take is to work at making love a verb rather than a noun.

In most marriages, people tend to think of love as a thing. They are sad that they don’t seem to have as much of it as they used to. They might be sad that love is completely missing from their marriage. In addition to, “how to make my husband happy,” I often hear other questions like, “where did the love go?” Read the rest of this entry

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Porn: Harmless Diversion or Marriage Wrecker?

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The Internet is more accessible than ever. This is mostly due to the wide use of smart phones and tablets. This easy access means that pornography is also more available than ever, too.

I frequently hear from readers whose marriages are at risk, in part due to pornography-related issues. At the same time, some equally vocal people (and couples) say that porn is a healthy bit of spice in their love life.

So which is it? Is porn use a problem or not?

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How to Stop Divorce and Fix Your Broken Marriage

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If you are afraid that your marriage is already in the brink of divorce, you have to learn how to stop divorce. This way, you can solve all the domestic issues that have been troubling your marriage while strengthening your relationship with your spouse at the same time.

Here are some tips that can help you live in domestic harmony. Read the rest of this entry

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How to Stop Divorce in Five Simple Steps

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If work, finances, and other domestic issues are already putting your marriage at risk, you have to learn how to stop divorce as early as now. Below are five simple steps that can immediately save your marriage and strengthen your relationship with your spouse.

Focus on the present

Most couples who fail to fix their marriage and end up having a divorce have tendencies to look into the past. They dwell on the past mistakes of their partners and forget about the real essence of moving forward. Read the rest of this entry

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